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The Dark Side Of Goal Setting<\/p>\n

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The Dark Side Of Goal Setting<\/p>\n

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The Dark Side Of Goal Setting<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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And How To Avoid It<\/p>\n

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And How To Avoid It<\/p>\n

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And How To Avoid It<\/p>\n

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You\u2019ve been told goal setting is
essential<\/span> for success<\/span> right?<\/p>\n

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I\u2019ll bet you\u2019ve even been told \u2013 at some point along the way \u2013 what goals you should<\/strong><\/em> take on. And even how to go about<\/em><\/strong> attaining those goals. But…I\u2019ll bet no one ever<\/strong><\/em> told you:<\/p>\n

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There\u2019s a Dark Side to goal setting…and it can really hurt you<\/em>.<\/p>\n

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There are hidden goals living behind<\/em> and beneath<\/em> your stated goal. They chew big holes in your time, energy and confidence.<\/p>\n

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The cultures that shaped you may be (are likely) hijacking your efforts to accomplish consistently, sustainably\u2026or peacefully. Yesterday\u2019s thinking won\u2019t support tomorrow\u2019s achievements – or sustain today\u2019s.<\/em><\/p>\n

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The influences that lurk below conscious awareness<\/em><\/strong>, shaping perception and behavior, can actively (and chronically) cause your goal setting to be hit-or-miss at best and soul-shriveling at worst. Those influences cause us to <\/strong>take on goals that aren\u2019t ours <\/strong><\/em>at all but instead goals that:<\/p>\n

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Stem from someone else\u2019s needs, priorities or agenda.<\/p>\n

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Reflect outdated Cultural narrative.<\/p>\n

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Require us to abandon, discount, dismiss ourselves, our needs and values…all for the sake of \u201csuccess.\u201d<\/p>\n

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And, oh, by the way: Much of the time, someone else is defining what your success is or should be. Or how to get there.<\/p>\n

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The Result<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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You take on responsibilities that aren\u2019t yours to take on, leading to a go-push-crash pattern because –\u00a0 no matter how much\u00a0 you want this thing called balance in your life \u2013 the Dark Side insists you MUST strive to \u201cdo it all.\u201d<\/p>\n

This is a set up for experiencing frustration, exhaustion, confusion and loss of faith in yourself.<\/p>\n

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Not fun, <\/span>Not productive<\/span><\/p>\n

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No wonder<\/strong> so few people formally set goals, and even fewer achieve them.\u00a0BUT…<\/strong><\/p>\n

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It doesn\u2019t have to be this way.<\/p>\n

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You can\u00a0 avoid <\/span>the havoc created by the Dark Side of Goal Setting, including:<\/p>\n

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There is an easy<\/strong> way to tell when a goal is life-giving vs. life-draining and how to rework that goal so it \u2013 and you!<\/em> \u2013 get freed up from the Dark Side<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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Take \u201cSarah,\u201d for example.<\/p>\n

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Shortly after taking on a new position with increased responsibilities, visibility (and pressure), she said, \u201cHelp me get more organized.\u201d<\/p>\n

We could have jumped right into strategies and tasks related to organizing her office and her workday.<\/p>\n

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But…<\/p>\n

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That would be seduction<\/span> <\/strong>to the dark side<\/p>\n

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Instead<\/span><\/p>\n

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Through exploring what Sarah really<\/em> wanted, we discovered she was feeling wobbly and out of control due to the learning curve in her new position.<\/p>\n

Focusing only<\/em><\/strong> on the surface level goal (getting organized) would have set Sarah up to get caught in a Dark Side loop, circling repeatedly to chase the \u201cget organized\u201d goal, and not addressing what was really going on<\/strong><\/em> for her – the feeling of being out of control<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

By addressing the underlying goals, the goals behind the goal, Sarah was able to shift her \u201cwobbles\u201d and gain confidence and traction in her job.<\/p>\n

This is just one example of how stepping out of the Dark Side can help you gain clarity and reduce frustration when you stop unproductive circling and second-guessing.<\/p>\n

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This 2-hour, self-paced workshop, The Dark Side of Goal Setting \u2013 and How To Avoid It<\/strong><\/em>, grew out of my work with countless Sarahs over the past 30 years.<\/p>\n

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Wondering if this is for you?\u00a0 It is <\/span>if you…<\/p>\n

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Are ready<\/em><\/strong> to stop driving, dismissing or discounting yourself for the sake of outcomes.<\/p>\n

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Want<\/em><\/strong> goals that\u00a0give<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0you life vs. bleeding you dry.<\/p>\n

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Love<\/em><\/strong> the idea of goals that deepen your relationship with yourself instead of requiring you to abandon yourself,\u00a0your needs, or your values.<\/p>\n

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What this Workshop <\/span>will give you…<\/p>\n

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A few words about goals<\/span> <\/strong>and resilience<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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We live in a time when resilience is c<\/strong>ritical.<\/em><\/strong> Change is no longer an event but a constant backdrop to everyday life.<\/p>\n

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Understanding – and addressing – the impact of unceasing change is crucial<\/strong><\/em> for helping us continue to build resilience in a time when resilience is essential<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n

Goal setting, as we\u2019ve been traditionally taught it, compromises resilience by eating bandwidth, sucking energy, and derailing us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Our old approach is not just bad for business, it is bad for our health.<\/p>\n

Bottom line:<\/strong> Goal setting as we\u2019ve understood it with the Strive-At-All-Costs-to-Achieve perspective? Is not only unproductive over the long haul; it is actually damaging.<\/p>\n

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We can Change <\/span>this. Now.<\/p>\n

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Imagine <\/span>what can become possible when you…<\/p>\n

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Prioritize<\/strong> <\/em>self-care and have it be something you enjoy doing (instead of just Another Thing To Do On Your List)<\/p>\n

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Discover<\/strong><\/em> new opportunities when you leave the “shoulds” behind<\/p>\n

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Move<\/strong><\/em> beyond perfectionism (A.K.A. The Dark Side<\/em><\/strong>) to model appropriate standards of excellence<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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Reduce<\/em><\/strong> your frustration and exhaustion levels<\/p>\n

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Stop<\/strong><\/em> getting derailed and second-guessing yourself<\/p>\n

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Ready to leave the dark side of goal setting behind?\u00a0You can, starting now, starting here.<\/p>\n

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FAQs<\/p>\n

[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_toggle title=”Q: Lyn, can I use this for any goals?” open_toggle_text_color=”#4f4f4f” open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#4f4f4f” closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#e5c15a” _builder_version=”4.18.0″ _module_preset=”default” title_font_size=”21px” body_text_color=”#4f4f4f” custom_margin=”|15%||15%|false|false” custom_margin_tablet=”|15%||15%|false|false” custom_margin_phone=”|0%||0%|false|false” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”||||false|false” border_radii=”on|10px|10px|10px|10px” border_width_all=”2px” border_color_all=”#e5c15a” global_colors_info=”{}”]A: Yes. Whether it is that last 5 pounds you want to lose or the exercise routine you want to maintain, or resolving an issue with someone at work, the tools and practices in The Dark Side of Goal Setting (DSOGS), will help you get to the essence of what you really want and identify the factors that are likely to derail you.
\n[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”Q: How can this workshop be helpful for me if I don\u2019t like goal setting?” open_toggle_text_color=”#4f4f4f” open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#4f4f4f” closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#e5c15a” _builder_version=”4.17.6″ _module_preset=”default” title_font_size=”21px” body_text_color=”#4f4f4f” custom_margin=”|15%||15%|false|false” custom_margin_tablet=”|15%||15%|false|false” custom_margin_phone=”|0%||0%|false|false” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”||||false|false” border_radii=”on|10px|10px|10px|10px” border_width_all=”2px” border_color_all=”#e5c15a” global_colors_info=”{}”]A: This is a great question, and relevant for SO many people. In the workshop, I give you a new framing of why goal setting has not been resonant for you. This is addressed in the Q&A video portion of the workshop \u2013 because you aren\u2019t the only person to have asked me this question. Spoiler alert: I think it\u2019s your inner wisdom speaking to you, and in the workshop, I\u2019ll say more about why this wisdom is so important for you.<\/p>\n

Also, with the tools I offer you in the workshop, you can partner with that inner wisdom to have a very different (translation: life-giving, life-affirming) relationship with goal setting.<\/p>\n

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\n[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”Q: How long is the workshop?” open_toggle_text_color=”#4f4f4f” open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#4f4f4f” closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#e5c15a” _builder_version=”4.17.6″ _module_preset=”default” title_font_size=”21px” body_text_color=”#4f4f4f” custom_margin=”|15%||15%|false|false” custom_margin_tablet=”|15%||15%|false|false” custom_margin_phone=”|0%||0%|false|false” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”||||false|false” border_radii=”on|10px|10px|10px|10px” border_width_all=”2px” border_color_all=”#e5c15a” global_colors_info=”{}”]A: Total time is around 2 hours, but it is broken into convenient bite-sized pieces, so any time you have a few extra minutes, you can jump back in. Because it is self-paced and the content is available for you 24\/7, you can go into the workshop any time you like, as often as you like.<\/p>\n

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\n[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”Q: Where is the workshop?” open_toggle_text_color=”#4f4f4f” open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#4f4f4f” closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#e5c15a” _builder_version=”4.17.6″ _module_preset=”default” title_font_size=”21px” body_text_color=”#4f4f4f” custom_margin=”|15%||15%|false|false” custom_margin_tablet=”|15%||15%|false|false” custom_margin_phone=”|0%||0%|false|false” custom_margin_last_edited=”on|phone” custom_padding=”||||false|false” border_radii=”on|10px|10px|10px|10px” border_width_all=”2px” border_color_all=”#e5c15a” global_colors_info=”{}”]A: All program content is conveniently located online, so you can access it 24\/7 wherever you have internet access.<\/p>\n

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